St. Mary's Homily Page


Neat bible....

Welcome to the Catholic Parish
of St. Mary Star of the Sea.

----------------------------------------------------------------
Please note that this page  is only updated periodically... it is not
updated on a weekly basis, but as time permits.         Thank you.

----------------------------------------------------------------

  
Homily - Third Sunday of Lent - John 4:5-42 - On Sacrifice and Deserving.


The Gospel story that we heard today of the Samaritan woman is quite a long gospel, it probably took me more than five minutes to read.  You will notice as we read the Gospels during Lent that all of them are quite a bit longer.  Perhaps this is part of the penance that we do during Lent.  And so I will try to keep my remarks a little shorter today.  I am reminded of the story of the preacher who stood up in the pulpit and said to the congregations, "I have three sermons with me today.  One sermon is a hundred dollar sermon lasts more than 45 minutes.  The second one is a $500 sermon that lasts for 15 minutes.  The last one is a thousand dollar sermon that only lasts for five minutes.  We are going to do something a little different today.  We will take up the collection before the sermon.  And then we'll see which sermon you get! "

The gospel of the woman from Samaria has so much depth to it that it would be impossible in a short homily in one mass to talk about everything that's important within it.  I would strongly recommend that as part of your preparation for Lent this week, that you take out the Missalette or your Bible and read this story again and again, discuss it with your family, and look at all of the ways that it speaks to us today in our modern world. 

Today I would like to talk about one concept shows up throughout the readings, not just in the gospel but also in a letter from Paul, and that is the concept of "Deserving".  When we talk about religion and morality, the expression that someone is getting what they deserve, comes out very often.  The trouble is that the only way for us of the to determine what somebody deserves is to make a judgment.  And yet the Lord, over and over again, has warned us against making judgments about other people. 

What do we deserve? This is certainly the challenge of today's scripture.  The word deserve has gotten a lot of press lately in the newspaper, especially associated with the Olympics.  Did our skaters deserve to win the gold medal? Did those athletes who were banned from the games deserve to be sent home?

As people we are often very concerned about who deserves to get what, but it's a question that we must be very careful about, because the thought of getting what we deserve can be pretty scary if we look at our own lives. 

Jesus promises this Samaritan woman the possibility of the eternal life, despite the fact it she has had five husbands and is living with a man who is not her husband, not exactly a deserving lifestyle.  Jesus has brought salvation to many people such as tax collectors, who cheated their fellow Jews, to the woman caught in adultery who should have been stoned according to Scripture, and to many others who may not have deserved his sacrifice

But before we ask whether someone deserves something or not let's look again at what Paul has to say.  He says that the true miracle of Jesus' sacrifice for us is that he died for us when we were all sinners.  He didn't step forward to sacrifice himself for innocent people, but rather he stepped forward to sacrifice himself for people who were sinners.  He did not judge before he did what was right.  And this is one of the most important things that he is trying to teach us through his life that we must do what is right, including making sacrifices for others, whether they deserve it or not. 

It is very easy to look at someone and say they don't deserve something.  But we need to look at ourselves again and ask some questions.  Do we deserve the many blessings we have?

Did we deserve to be born in Canada where life is good and three square meals a day is the norm, when more than half of the world goes to bed hungry every night? 

Do we deserve to sit down in front of the television at night with our feet on a soft cushion because we put in a hard eight hour day when there are literally thousands of single mothers and fathers working double shifts to just put food on the table?

Do we deserve to spend all the excess money that we've "earned" on bigger TV's and Cars, or hide it away in RRSP's for thirty years, when others can't make ends meet today?

Did I deserve to be born a man, so that I get paid more for doing exactly the same job as the woman in the desk beside me?

How about the other side of deserving, deserving punishment.  Before we look at those in prison for example and say they've gotten what they deserve, let us ask ourselves these questions. 

Did those men and women in prison deserve to be beaten and abused as children? The statistics show that over 75 percent of the people in prisons had just such a life as a child. 

When we drop a bomb on a terrorist site, killing not only those who would bring violence to us but their families as well, can we say they got what they deserved? Did they deserve to be born in a tent in a refugee camp? With no food and no help from the rest of the rich world as they watched it go by them everyday? Did they deserve to have their young years filled with poison and hatred from old and bitter leaders? Do they deserve our retribution when they never received our help?

Jesus sacrificed his life for our sakes, although we did not deserve it.  Jesus does not offer life to the Samaritan woman because she deserves it, but because it is the right thing to do.  His Father had sent him to save all humankind, to let all of us have the chance to live in his life, regardless of whether or not we deserved it 

To be a Christian means that we do not have the luxury of deciding whether the people we help deserve our help or not.  That is not the Savior's way.  Just as the Samaritan people realized that they believed in Jesus because of what they heard from him directly in their own hearts even more than the reasons that they heard it from the woman, it should prove to us that we need to give Jesus the time in prayer to speak in our hearts so that we will all to believe in him and to follow him by sacrificing for others by helping others even if they don't deserve it. 

This approach is very different from our current world values, where consumerism allows us and grants us the privilege of using up every single thing we earn even though others are doing without, where our laws allow our personal convenience to take precedence over the life of an unborn child, where politicians right now are even proposing that we make being homeless a crime as if those who sleep on the street somehow deserve that and deserve to be punished for allowing it to happen. 

"De-serve" is an interesting word because it actually is made up of two parts, the first "de" is the Latin word for "from or of" and "serve" of course comes from service and so what we "deserve" is what we get from the service that we give. 

During Lent be prepared to make a sacrifice for others, whether it's a financial sacrifice in the "Share Life" campaign that is coming up, or a sacrifice of your time and effort in one of the many parish groups or other communities services you may be belong to.  And part of our sacrifice is giving up that comfort that we like to know that those we help deserve it, by "our" standards, and simply helping because it is the right thing to do.  If we don't judge others as to what they deserve, then when our turn comes we may also be granted salvation through Christ's sacrifice, rather than trying to pretend that we have earned it ourselves. 

The gift of living water is ours to take.  The gift of Christ's living body is ours, here today in the Eucharist.  The gift of the sacrifice that Christ made for us has also been given to us so that we may share it with others.  In this Lenten season, let us reach out to others and share and sacrifice and forget about the word "Deserve."

    - Deacon Steve

 So far, about Hit Counter people have visited this page...